About Me

Barry Selby

A little about me: My name is Barry Selby, I am known in these parts as The Passion Consultant.

The Passion Consultant?

My life purpose is inspiring people to live authentic lives, and the vehicle that most effectively expresses my purpose is my facilitation, leadership, guidance, work with singles and couples to have amazing relationships, living purposefully and authentically, and fulfilling your highest potential.Yes, I am passionate about living authentically, living from love first, and living to make a difference. My calling is guiding my clients like you to have powerfully profound, passionate, fulfilling and healthy relationships. I also consult with clients to reveal and share their gifts in the world. We all have them. Yes, even you! 

Originating from England, I've lived in the US for 30 years now. Along the way I also lived for a spell in Germany and Belgium.

I've been fascinated with how people relate (or don’t!), and how people get along, and others don’t, for most of my life. Growing up in a small cul-de-sac in England, I lived in a stable family while around me other couples were divorcing and families breaking up. This frankly was a shock to my young mind, and it awoke me to learn about people and the choices they make. My fascination led me to immerse myself in over 25 years in human potential, personal development and spiritual exploration.

Along the way, I earned a Master's Degree in Spiritual Psychology from the University of Santa Monica, and I also earned my license as a professional spiritual counselor at the Agape International Spiritual Center. I have had a varied mix of career as well so relate to a wide variety of people and environments. I have a unique perspective on some aspects of life, which aids my consulting and serving of others.

If you wish to check out my thinking(!), read my blog. I have been known as a Gap Closure Specialist. What’s that you ask? I assist and coach people to close the gaps in different areas of their lives from where they currently are, to where they truly want to be. When you attend one of my programs, or you become one of my clients, or purchase one of my products, you will definitely close these gaps and have what your heart calls for and you truly want! Take a look at my products which include my Romance Blueprint and my new book Rules of Romance, and request a complimentary coaching consult.

In addition, I am a passionate professional photographer, with a specialization of candid, performance and events, specifically capturing the light and passion of people. Authenticity is my calling card. View some of my work here.